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Millennial, noncommittal romantic, walking the tightrope between hope and depression. Sounds like you too? I’ll write something for both of us.

Prepare for my redemption arc, will it be yours too?

A girl sits on her sofa bed holding a potted plant.
A girl sits on her sofa bed holding a potted plant.
Me sitting and holding my plant, hoping it will grow.


Things to remind yourself when you’re unsure but ready this season

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After hitting the ‘Publish’ button many times last month, here are my thoughts on earnings, curation, and the growing pains of being a new writer.

Photo of young woman holding a plant.
Photo of young woman holding a plant.
Photo: Author.


As I enter the last year of my 20s, here’s what 2020 taught me.

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Would you be able to answer if I asked you?

Two men hugging each other inside a bar.
Two men hugging each other inside a bar.
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  • Wrapped in my faux wool blanket
  • Twice napping…


And their secret cult is partially to blame.

Screenshot of a cartoon: A redhead woman is standing behind the counter of a pizza shop. A pepperoni pizza in a box hovers in the air with the label “Good Pizza, Great Pizza!” above the counter.
Screenshot of a cartoon: A redhead woman is standing behind the counter of a pizza shop. A pepperoni pizza in a box hovers in the air with the label “Good Pizza, Great Pizza!” above the counter.
In-game screenshot with the town’s local influencer: Author.


Let me help you save yourself two hours of heartbreak

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Or, why being just ‘okay’ still means you’re the best.

Greyscale photo of a crowd crossing the street.
Greyscale photo of a crowd crossing the street.
Photo by Sasha Freemind on Unsplash


A top point of discussion that I needed to write about.

A side-by-side photo of a young Prince Philip (left) and an old Prince Philip (right).
A side-by-side photo of a young Prince Philip (left) and an old Prince Philip (right).
Photo: Daily Express


The top reason why you’re not levelling up: You lack grace.

A young woman in a business suit is sitting and watching two women talk. She has a blank look on her face.
A young woman in a business suit is sitting and watching two women talk. She has a blank look on her face.
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Abby Cheval

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