Why You Should Keep Your Dreams to Yourself

Five simple reasons why it’s good to tuck those goals away

Photo by Adolfo Félix on Unsplash

Everyday millions of us have ideas, goals or dreams that we race to share with others. Before we know it, half the people in our lives know what our business is. And with social media in this digital age, sharing our plans is easier than ever — sometimes required, most times expected.

I’m also extremely guilty of this. Lately, however, I’ve realized the benefits in quietly keeping my dreams to myself. Here’s five reasons why it would be good for you too.

1. No one can steal it from you. When you keep your dream to yourself, you can fly happily under the radar. You can focus solely on your own progress, and you won’t have to compare yourself to anyone who does it after.
2. You unconsciously stop seeking their approval. You start to really understand that the only approval you need is your own. Plus, each goal you hit and achievement you make will build its own confidence within you.
3. You will less feel pressured to perform. With less eyes and ears on your work, you can work in a more relaxed state knowing there isn’t an audience waiting for your first move. Your mental health will be less vulnerable to anxiety, doubt and the idea of impostor syndrome.